My Journey Through Pain to Purpose
Your Story Isn't Over
I didn't plan to become a coach. Life had other plans. After my divorce, I found myself as a single mother, rebuilding from nothing — financially broken, emotionally shattered, and completely lost about what came next. I had to learn how to survive when survival felt impossible.
Then came the unthinkable. My son was diagnosed with brain cancer. I watched my child fight for his life while I fought to keep our family standing. We lost him. That loss broke me in ways I didn't know were possible.
But here's what I discovered in that darkness: pain is not the end of your story. It's a chapter. And if you're willing to do the work, it can become the chapter that transforms everything.
I didn't just survive those seasons. I learned how to rebuild. I learned how to pivot when my original plan didn't work. I learned how to adjust my mindset from victim to victor. And I learned how to maintain faith and purpose when everything around me was crumbling.
That's when Sparked By Two was born — not out of perfection, but out of the ashes of my own rebuilding. My husband Brandon and I decided that our pain had to mean something. It had to help someone else.
Now, I help women and men just like you — people who have experienced loss, divorce, failure, or life-changing circumstances — transform their pain into their greatest asset. Because your story isn't over. It's just entering a new chapter.
Pivot • Adjust • Maintain™
The framework that took me from broken to built. When life doesn't go as planned, these three shifts change everything.
Change your course. Stop waiting for life to go back to normal and design something new. Your plan may have shifted, but your purpose hasn't.
Shift your mindset. Move from survival mode to significance. From asking "why me?" to asking "what can I do with this?" Fear keeps you stuck longer than failure ever will.
Hold your faith, your vision, and your purpose steady. Even when the journey is hard. Consistency in small things builds the legacy that changes everything.
Who I Serve
I work with three specific groups: women 35-55 who are divorced, widowed, or healing from major loss; men 35-55 who are seeking purpose and building legacy; and married couples who want to rebuild their vision together.
They come to me stuck. They've survived the worst, but they don't know what's next. They have a story, but they haven't learned that their story is also their qualification. They have pain, but they haven't discovered that pain can become ministry.
Through faith-centered coaching, resources, and community, I help them see what I see: Your story isn't over. It's just getting started. And the best chapters may still be ahead.
